Sunday, December 6, 2009-An update from Alan Wade, Lucia’s Dad
Update on Lucia’s Recovery Progress
As of today, it’s eight weeks since Lucia’s accident. An update is in order, even though noticeable changes take place very slowly and are often hard to identify. Yesterday, I attended the annual meeting of a local charity which Lucia had served for more than a year as its first website technician. I responded to dozens of inquiries regarding her well-being and progress. I will try to summarize my comments to Lucia’s old friends and acquaintances in this update. Further, I spent two enjoyable days with her last week so noticed a few things at first hand.
She remains primarily upbeat and optimistic, but does become frustrated when she tires easily and is unable to accomplish as many tasks as she did before the accident. We are working with her to limit her expectations of herself and allow more time (and energy) for healing. Her daily routines include regular visits to various therapists and doctors (she has to be driven to the appointments by a care-taker), short, slow walks with her dog Cody, who must be handled on the leash by someone else. Lucia walks ahead, supported by her two European style hiking sticks. She remains grateful that she is able to walk at all, even though she misses her good, long runs through her neighborhood and elsewhere.
Several issues remain, in addition to those currently being dealt with. One is her double vision. She is able to read, but must wear an eye patch. She reads and answers email to the extent of her ability, but is severely limited. The eye doctor told her last week that six more months to a year are needed to determine if the vision heals itself before considering surgery. Two sets of corrective lenses, one for distance and one for reading, are also a possibility. She is concerned also about her loss of a sense of smell.
The double knee injury (anterior and posterior cruciate ligament injuries on the same leg) will be evaluated this coming week by an orthopedist who we hope will clarify current ambiguities about desired treatment.
Lucia at last has a temporary caretaker whose presence has made it possible for partner Monica to return only on a part time basis to her own demanding job in San Francisco. Lucia is extremely happy with her new caretaker’s temperament and professionalism.
Time, patience, and measured intervention seem to be the keys to recovery. Meanwhile, keep up the prayers and supportive energy. There is no doubt that they have helped Lucia along the path to full recovery.
Thanks, Alan. These updates really mean a lot. Loosh: I think you should consider only speaking “pirate” when you’re wearing the eye patch!
I cannot imagine the patience it takes to be in (any of) your shoes. Thank goodness for the Lucia’s strength and that of her family to be there for her. I’m trying to get back to doing pull-ups in your honor Loosh, but I’m not the lightweight I (almost) was!
Alan, thank you for these updates! It really means so much being so far away. I am so thankful you are taking the time to communicate with all of us in a wonderfully detailed manner! THANK YOU! Also, the faith and spirit you are all showing is incredible.
Prayers continuing to come your way!!
Much love!
Jen Roy
Thank you so much for the updates. We are always thinking of Lucia and Monica and wish them our very best. I am an old friend that loves them both very much. They are indeed very special people. Love, Marilyn
Much love and prayers to Lucia, Monica and all the family.
Thanks Alan for the updates! Lucia, you are an inspiration to us all……Your strength and committment are undying, and your ability to fight this tragedy is awe-inspiring. I have always respected your character, and even moreso now….ANd Monica, I know it must be so hard for you, but know that I am thinking of you and equally inspired by your dedication. You guys are the BEST!!!
Thank you, Alan, for giving such positive updates. I can only imagine the extent of recovery and needed healing time and Lucia continues to be positive herself, even though demanding more of herself each day. That part isn’t surprising! Our thoughts are with Lucia, Monica and for the entire family. We wish her a speedy recovery (as fast as that can be!) both physically and mentally.